Why Your Wife Is Cheating?

Why Your Wife Is Cheating?

12/17/2013 10:28:00 am
By Jon Allo
Expert Author Jon Allo
Women are less likely to cheat simply because an opportunity presents itself. Most of the time, it is not a spur of the moment decision. That's the reason why women's affairs are often more devastating to the state of the relationship than a man's affair.
The things that lead women to cheat are often very different from the reasons men cheat. So, why is your wife cheating? Here are a few of the most commonly stated reasons why women cheat on their men.
Somebody Is Paying Her Attention
Women who cheat often feel alone even if they are married. You might not be the best communicator, but when you don't pay attention to your wife and what she has to say, it makes her feel alone and isolated. This tends to make her a perfect target for a man interested in a 'no strings attached' relationship with a married women. All he has to do is pay attention to her, hear what she has to say, and react in a favourable way.
She Needs Something You're Not Providing
Everybody has needs and good relationships are all about both of you having your needs fulfilled. The difficult task with your wife is that she may not always know what her need is until someone comes along and leaves her completely gob smacked when they appear to be able to give it. It's difficult to compete with that. Nonetheless, that doesn't justify her cheating on you. It just makes her susceptible to the person who is fulfilling this need that she had felt was living without. That's why you need to work out what your individual needs are and how are each of you going to meet them to keep each other happy.
She's Being Taken for Granted At Home
Many women do not feel appreciated at home. She feels that anything she does is not noticed or appreciated by her family and her husband. Then a stranger turns up and shows admiration. He makes her feel like the centre of the whole world, and really notices the little things. Suddenly, she feels that she is no longer feeling taken for granted. In fact, she's feeling a lot of emotions that she hasn't felt in a long time, specifically, excitement.
Why Your Wife Won't Cheat
Pay attention to your wife, notice the details, show your appreciation, and devote yourself to discovering and meeting her most important needs. You'll be amazed what a difference these steps make in your relationship.
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