By Ibrahim M Amin
Add to that another common expression about love, "One man's wife could be another man's lover." As we all know, a "spare driver" isn't the main driver. He is the assistant driver. His services will only be needed if the main driver is indisposed. In the above scenario, these women's husbands are to be considered the "main drivers" and their cheating partners the "spare drivers". To be sure, there is nothing like a "spare lover" and a "main lover" unless one doesn't understand the true meaning of love.
There is no man or woman who would like to share their partner with a "spare lover". This is just an example how far some married couples have gone away from the true meaning of love. Does a man or woman truly love his or her partner if he/she hires a "spare driver?" How is he/she going to pay for services rendered? My question to those resorting to "spare drivers" is: Is your love for someone else's partner built upon sincerity, purity and affection, or that it's only built on satisfying your sexual instincts through an illegal way? What happens next if you get caught by the "main driver?"
To the married woman seriously searching to recruit a "spare driver", if your love for your husband is going to be shared by a "spare driver", then why
would you get married to him in the first place? How would you hope to raise a responsible family in a matrimonial home that is shared between your husband and your "spare driver?" Are you not rattling the wrong cage of love? To that man or woman doing that, your love for your partner is not characteristic of that true love that has been based upon compassion, affection, tenderness and humility.
Because it's only out of a dignified and true love that a matrimonial home must be built upon. With a dignified and true love comes the fusion of the hearts and souls of the both of you. Thereafter, you begin to act as one individual. Then of course, the rainbow of love engulfs the both of you - cultivating in the both of you, the acceptance, with a proud equanimity, the misfortunes of life together. You belong to her, and she belongs to you, thus a true union between two separate individuals that becomes inseparable. You are meant to be together through thick and thin.
To the partner thinking of hiring a "spare driver", if you had internalized and accepted your partner, there would have been very little that could have torn both of you apart. It could be that your partner is a philanderer and you want to retaliate. It could also be that your partner is incapable of "heating up" the marital bed. But because of the fundamental unshakable bond you vowed to uphold together before marriage, you could have sat down with your partner to discuss how best both of you could "light up" your love life.
The author has been an advocate of true love and enduring sexual relationships between loving couples.
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