Heard the famous song by Frank Ocean, "I am your girlfriend's best friend... soon I will be taking over." Your sweetheart had a life before you came and still has a circle beyond you which is also an intrinsic part of her life. Those who judge your relationship the most and have major influence on your girlfriend's decisions is her circle of girlfriends. Girls discuss the minutest of the details with each other and since relationship is a big part of anyone's life, it is always the hottest topic of discussion among them. Yes, you got it right, your moves are constantly being judged and that can make or break your relationship too. So here are few simple ways which will help you to be in good books of her girlfriends and impress them in an acceptable way:
1. Treat Them Nicely
That is something very basic and part of general behavior, if you treat the other person well, they are bound to like you. Always be polite and courteous to them even if you don't like one or two in the group. On occasions where all of you hang out together, try to strike a conversation, listen to them, offer them food and drinks. This trick will surely hit the right spot and you will be considered a "nice guy".
2. Involve Them In Your Plans
Her girlfriends can be of great help if you plan to surprise her by arranging a classy date for her or want to gift her something special. This will work two-ways, one that this will ensure them that you are making efforts to pamper their friend and secondly, you get a chance to interact with the her friends little more. This will surely earn you respect from them.
3. No One Likes A "Show- Off"
4. Show Your Love
In practice of being nice to her friends, don't forget the main reason why you doing this at all i.e. your girlfriend. Show some love and affection to her in front of them. This should be done very tactfully so that it doesn't make her girlfriends uncomfortable and they don't know where to look. Watching their friend happy because of you will nullify all your chances of being a bad guy in their minds.
5. Don't Embarrass Your Sweetheart
It is a waste to bring up your old fights and controversial stuff in front of ten other people. The conversation should always be light and smooth. Try not to pick point her weaknesses when you with her set of friends.
6. Be Considerate
There might be someone in the group of girls who must be going through a rough patch in her life. Sometimes it happens that because of their difficult times, they try to judge other person wrongly. If you think that she kind of dislikes you, try to give her some space and reason out with her whenever she is rude with you. Handle the situation gently and tactfully. If you argue with her friends, it might cause an argument between you and your partner or your girlfriend and her friends. Talk calmly and try to sort out things.
7. Be A Fun Person and Smile
Smile is best way to please others. Don't sound a bore by talking too much in front of her girlfriends. Take it easy and have fun.
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